The simple reality is that an average 150 pound human has no means and ways to control a 1000 to 1200 pound horse. You can use the meanest bit in the world – and the horse can just throw you in the dirt. But does that mean we have to be afraid of horses?
Obviously not. Thousands of people are riding or driving horses – and enjoy the heck out of it. Yes every now and then accidents happen – but you could just stumble in your yard and break a bone.
But: What I call the “fear factor” can greatly influence how you train, ride or drive your horse.
Many years ago I had a friend who just loved trail riding and driving. There was only one problem. Besides an old Mustang mare the girl never got along with the horses she had. After a couple years the “problem horse” got sold. It took me along time and all my psychological knowledge to find out what was really going on.
Pretty much unconsciously the girl was afraid of horses. That was the reason why she always “over-controlled” the horse. For the horse this meant that something was wrong. The horse got nervous and the problem kept growing.
In another example I watched a girl saddle a Morgan mare. She was acting way over-cautious, telling the horse in a whispering voice that everything was ok, when she put the blanket on. The horse got extremely nervous – about ready to blow – in the process. I had not ridden but handled the mare a lot. So I stopped the girl, took the saddle and blanket off and walked the horse a little.
Then I went back to the hitch rail, kind of threw the blanket and saddle on “cowboy style”, cinched up, put the bridle on – and way we went. The mare was just fine with that.
So, what is the point here?
I have observed many cases where a – often unconscious – “fear factor” had a very negative impact on the training or handling of a horse. Horses can “read” us humans often much better than we can read them. They sense tension or fear and it translates to them into some danger that they cannot make out.
How can you solve such a problem?
Well, first of all horses are not by nature aggressive. Second, most accidents are caused by a lack of attention or just wrong handling on the human side. I once got kicked pretty hard, because I did not pay attention. I tapped a horse on the butt, not noticing he had a nap and did not hear me coming.
I have written in another article about “trust”. This is a good way to overcome the “fear factor” – a bond of trust between you and the horse.
And especially when you are training horses the key is to pay attention. A raised head, folded back ears or a foot lifted ready for a kick are big red warning flags. The horse is uncomfortable or even afraid. When I work with horses on picking up their feet, I keep body contact with the horse. That way I can feel when the horse tenses up – which is another warning sign. Before I can go on I have to solve the cause of the tension.
If you encounter that a horse acts “strange” when you handle it, do some soul searching. There is a good chance that you are the reason.
By: Wolfgang Maass About the Author:
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